It’s because you were never shown how secure love actually works.
Which is why I specialize in helping people with anxious attachment when you're single —so you can stop repeating painful dating cycles and finally pick partners who are capable of SHOWING UP.
- Suzanne
She offers incredible guidance in a safe and supportive space to do this incredibly life changing work. I have benefited incredibly from the work I’ve done with and because of her."
Sefora provides a solid toolkit to work with.
-Naava
along with frustration at not managing things the way I want to. The course materials are excellent and also really good broad ranging and yet right on target for what I need."
- noeline
The biggest thing I got was learning how to re-source myself and be emotionally healthy/independent; enforcing my boundaries more; listening to my intuition more; and learning about securely attached thinking patterns and behaviors."
I thought both Sefora and her program were terrific!
WITHOUT Sefora I would have Fewer strategies and insights, more plodding
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- Jacob
Her courses have been transformative for me.
Sefora’s knowledge and approach to attachment styles is spot on.
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I’ve spent 15,000+ clinical hours as a couples therapist and attachment coach, guiding people through the exact struggles anxious attachers face every day.
I know what it’s like to feel like love is out of reach — and I know how to help you change that. My frameworks combine attachment science, nervous system regulation, and strategic dating tools to help you create the steady love you’ve always wanted.
If love keeps feeling harder than it should, you don’t need to try harder. You need a clear next step.
Whether you are just starting to explore your patterns or you are ready to shift into secure love, I will show you the exact path forward.
I saw so many of my clients struggling in the same relationship patterns over and over. So I created a roadmap to help folks get where they really want to go: healthy, secure relationships.
Single and not quite sure what your attachment style is? Start here and save yourself tons of pain by learning about your attachment style!
Watch the free training and learn how to break the anxious cycle and call in steady mutual connection.
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