The Secure Attachment Challenge:
Build the foundation for the safe, healthy, lasting love you
deserve — without years of therapy.
For less than a dinner out, start rewiring your attachment style and stop repeating painful patterns.
unlock the entire training!
Regular price: $997
Today's price: $47!
*currently on sale!
For anyone who gave too much, hoped too hard, and stayed too long — tired of chasing, pleasing, and shrinking just to keep love — and finally ready for something steady, mutual, and real.
Feeling calm instead of anxious when you like someone — because you trust yourself not to chase
Imagine this...
Finally understanding why you shut down or over-function in relationships — and how to stop
Feeling more steady within yourself, so you don’t feel like you need someone else to feel okay.
Feeling steady in conflict or dating — instead of spiraling or second-guessing
Being seen, loved, and respected… without having to hustle for it
Starting to believe that secure love isn’t just for other people — it’s available to you, too
👉 I’M READY FOR SECURE LOVE
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and maybe even tried therapy, but something still feels off.
You feel like you’re always on uneven ground in love—sometimes things feel good, but it NEVER LASTS.
You’ll question why love feels harder for you than it does for others.
You’ll feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting, stuck in an exhausting cycle.
You’ll replay the same arguments and emotional struggles in every relationship.
Do you keep replaying the same painful relationship patterns over and over again in your relationships?
without clarity on your attachment patterns...
so tell me...
Attachment styles are the key to understanding why relationships feel easy for some and challenging for others.
If relationships keep falling apart, it’s not random—it’s attachment at play.
You’ll try to be “less anxious” — but it feels impossible when you really like someone.
You’ll work on boundaries, but they will collapse under pressure or guilt.
You want love to feel easy, mutual, and steady — but won't know how to get there.
👉 I’M READY to break free
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and maybe even tried therapy, but something still feels off. You feel like you’re always on uneven ground in love—sometimes things feel good, but it NEVER LASTS.
You’ll question why love feels harder for you than it does for others.
You’ll feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting, stuck in an exhausting cycle.
You’ll replay the same arguments and emotional struggles in every relationship.
Do you keep replaying the same painful relationship patterns over and over again in your relationships?
without clarity on your attachment patterns...
so tell me...
Attachment styles are the key to understanding why relationships feel easy for some and challenging for others.
If relationships keep falling apart, it’s not random—it’s attachment at play.
You’ll try to be “less anxious” — but it feels impossible when you really like someone.
You’ll work on boundaries, but they will collapse under pressure or guilt.
You want love to feel easy, mutual, and steady — but won't know how to get there.
👉 I’M READY to break free
The attachment decoding that finally explains why you love the way you do — and how to change it.
The real-life connection tools that help relationships create security, feel warm, bonded, and safe.
The healing attachment framework that helps you stop over-functioning and start receiving more love with less effort.
The exact mindset shifts and behaviors that turn dating and relationships into true partnership.
6 Video Modules (Delivered over 3 Days)
Break down what healthy love really looks like — and learn the practical behaviors securely attached people use to create ease, stability, and connection in relationships.
6 Guided Audio Practices
Short, soothing audios to help you calm the overwhelm, feel more steady, and stay grounded when love feels hard. Listening to these audios, gradually trains your mind to expect and believe in love again.
What's included?
PLUS a FREE training on how to shift into your secure self in any moment!
Regular price: $150
Today's price: free!
*for a limited time only!
This training reminded me that love is available — and I don’t have to overgive to earn it.
I’m realizing I’ve had so much support all along — I just didn’t know how to let it in. 🙌 This opened something big.
This training helped me catch myself in the spiral. I realized I wasn’t actually broken — I just needed new tools. 🙏
👉 I want this bonus too!
(This is the stuff they teach therapists! You’ll never blame yourself the same way again.)
(The subtle hacks that keep the love hormones flowing — even when things get hard.)
(Think teamwork, not power struggles — and real strategies for emotional safety.)
(Because your attachment wounds didn’t just block love — they blocked your ability to receive it.)
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A Secure Attachment Calculator
Calculate how secure you are, AND how secure your relationships are!
Do your relationships pass the secure test?
Most of us never got the template for healthy love.
And when you’ve spent your whole life over-functioning, spiraling, or bracing for rejection… letting love in can feel impossible.
This challenge doesn’t just teach you what secure attachment looks like — it helps you feel secure.
You’ll see what love can be… and that you don’t have to earn it through pain.
-Christina
I’ve stopped feeling like I’m chasing love. For the first time, I feel at ease and confident in my connections.
-suzanne
This program helped me recognize the secure relationship I want is within reach—and it gave me the tools to get there.
-Jacob
Sefora’s course gave me the clarity I needed to see my attachment patterns. I finally feel like I know what to focus on in love.
What other students are saying...
Sefora’s knowledge and approach to attachment styles is spot on. Her courses have been transformative for me. 💫
I feel more resourced, more supported, and finally believe that secure love is my birthright.💖🙏
Recognizing my shadows is helping me change behaviors I don’t like and create healthier patterns. 🙏
This program helped me enforce boundaries and trust my intuition—two things I’d always struggled with.
Sefora provides a solid toolkit to work with. She offers incredible guidance in a safe and supportive space to do this incredibly life changing work. I have benefited incredibly from the work I’ve done with and because of her. 👏👏👏
I’ve learned tools to understand myself and finally feel hopeful about dating again.
I’ve stopped chasing unavailable people and started attracting secure, fulfilling connections. 🫶
I feel emotionally independent for the first time in my life. I no longer rely on others to calm me down. ❤️❤️❤️
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What other students are saying...
Sefora’s knowledge and approach to attachment styles is spot on. Her courses have been transformative for me. 💫
I feel more resourced, more supported, and finally believe that secure love is my birthright.💖🙏
Recognizing my shadows is helping me change behaviors I don’t like and create healthier patterns. 🙏
This program helped me enforce boundaries and trust my intuition—two things I’d always struggled with.
Sefora provides a solid toolkit to work with. She offers incredible guidance in a safe and supportive space to do this incredibly life changing work. I have benefited incredibly from the work I’ve done with and because of her. 👏👏👏
I’ve learned tools to understand myself and finally feel hopeful about dating again.
I’ve stopped chasing unavailable people and started attracting secure, fulfilling connections. 🫶
I feel emotionally independent for the first time in my life. I no longer rely on others to calm me down. ❤️❤️❤️
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Frequently asked questions
Do I have to attend live?
Nope. You get immediate access to all materials and can move through the 3 days at your own pace. You’ll also get lifetime access, so you can come back to the content whenever you want a reset.
How much time is this intensive?
This program is designed to fit into your busy life! Each day requires about 20–45 minutes, including the video lesson, workbook exercises, and audio resources. You can use the 3 days to create momentum or spread out the work over time, coming back to it when it's easiest for you.
Do I have to know my attachment style?
Not at all. This challenge is designed to help you discover your attachment patterns — whether you already know your style or you’re still figuring it out. You’ll start seeing where old habits are keeping you stuck, and learn what secure connection actually looks and feels like, no label required.
How long will I have access?
Forever! (Well, internet-forever.) All 6 videos, resourcing audios, worksheets, coaching call replays and bonuses are yours to keep.
Do you offer any refunds ?
Yes! I offer a 7-day money-back guarantee if you decide to upgrade. If you feel this program isn’t for you, just reach out, and I’ll make it right.
How do I know this is right for me?
If you feel stuck in painful relationship patterns, struggle with emotional overwhelm, or crave secure, lasting love, this program is for you. It’s designed to help you move from confusion to clarity.
Will this give me a plan I can use in my life?
Yup. I'm all about structures that support you in creating secure love. You’ll leave with a personalized plan with actionable steps, practical tools, and daily practices to build secure attachment and create fulfilling relationships.